This article is going to be a deeper look into why it's so important to reach self-union within your twin flame connection and why, in fact, it's the soul's most important objective and main purpose of the twin flame connection entering your life in the first place. I recommend reading my previous article here if you haven't already where I began exploring this subject and offered practical solutions on how exactly you can reach self-union.
So what is self-union exactly? It's seeing beyond the mind conditioning we've soaked up through our lifetime on Earth surrounded by parents, society or anyone who seemingly has "authority" over us and our impressionable minds. It's remembering who we truly are as a divinely perfect soul and equally a divinely imperfect human being. It's about embracing both aspects, all aspects of ourselves. It's about breaking free from the illusions we've soaked up which tell us we are unworthy, bad, unlovable, simply because of our natural human imperfections. Self-union is breaking through the bs of our mind-monkeys and negative opinions / judgement from others and loving ourselves unconditionally, just as we are right NOW - not tomorrow or next year once we've lost the weight, healed everything, become the "perfect spiritual being" we mistakenly believe we have to "become" in order to "earn" worthiness!
Self-union is the balance of our 5D selves with our 3D selves. There is an illusion that the 5D is "superior" to our 3D selves and thus a tendency to judge the 3D self as "unworthy" and "not good enough". But we purposely came here to EMBRACE ourselves in human form in order to uplift our vibration. Only by embracing the 5D AND the 3D and merging them into one can we become enlightened human individuals. It's not the 3Dness that's unworthy, it's the conditioning that limits us from seeing our potential as humans to reach our limitless enlightenment. But the conditioning can be changed to become limitless, to be more aligned with our soul essence. This is what I will be focusing on in today's article and the subconscious blocks that often stand in the way of our enlightenment.
So what blocks us from achieving self-union?
To put it basically, it's the illusion that we are separated from love and therefore believe we must search outwardly to receive it. In the human form, most of our senses teach us to focus outwardly and interpret the world around us and so it is natural to think we must search for the love outside our ourselves too. But in the process of this amnesia which blinds us of the fact that love indeed comes from within, we can go about our lives molding ourselves to try and please everyone around us (impossible) in order to "earn" the love we feel is missing. In the process we lose touch with who we truly are (our soul essence) and begin basing our worth and identity on other's opinions or reactions to us. Thus we constantly wear a mask and live in the shadows of fear in case, God forbid!, someone makes a negative judgement towards us and our sense of worthiness and identity goes completely down the pan! This kind of clinging to the false-identity, which seeks validation outside of self, causes us to constantly be on red alert for any sign of the slightest judgement from another. Not a fun place to be stuck in! Your soul, the real you wants to be rid of this bs once and for all!
Why the Conditioned Blocks are so Toxic for our Humanity
Whatever we believe we subconsciously act out, so if we believe we are a bad person we may start acting in ways that make us feel that way about ourselves even more. And when other's judge us as being "bad" as a result we believe that even more and the belief system gets caught up in a downward spiral. Whatever we believe we manifest, whether through manifestation or our own actions that create those things. So equally, if we believe uplifting and positive things about ourselves and the world we can create that reality too.
In a more extreme example, this is a very simplified way of explaining all the war and destruction in the world. The wounded ego that was denied love on the outside starts feeling a sense of resentment and entitlement and treats others with that lack of love and respect in which they experienced themselves in the past. Also, if we are brought up in an environment where hatred, resentment and abusive tendencies were the norm, then the conditioned mind just thinks that type of behaviour is normal and energetically they are aligned with that so it's hard to break out of. It's like when you hear on the news of some abominable act and you just can't understand how someone could do such a thing - a part of them was likely brought up in that kind of environment and conditioning and therefore sees that kind of thing as normal or on some warped level "acceptable".
Such is the power of the conditioned mind. We can choose to wield that power in the destructive "separation consciousness" and wreak havok in the world, making the illusion of separation appear even greater, or we can train the subconscious mind to wield the power of love and unity consciousness in order to help us all come back to the truth of Oneness and that we are all lovable and worthy of love.
Other Ways the Conditioned Blocks Hold Us Back
In terms of the twin flame connection, if we have a conditioned belief that keeps telling us that we are unworthy and unlovable, we block ourselves from being able to receive love and thus block self-union and union with our twin.
Also, when we are caught up in the illusion that we are unworthy and must seek love, acceptance and validation outside of ourselves we become enslaved behind the "socially acceptable" and "people pleasing" mask. We become so anxious and neurotic as we diligently play these roles that may chop and change depending on who we are around at the time that we actually forget who we truly are. This becomes such a subconscious habit that really holds us back because not only do we try to hide the parts of ourselves that we mistakenly believe make us unworthy compared to the pack, along the way we also block the expression of our divine beauty - our authentic selves. We cannot be the masks and be ourselves at the same time. So our beauty and uniqueness that can inspire others to awaken also gets locked away and hidden. We only keep ourselves small when we try to fit in with the old paradigms created by the warped conditioning. It's just like when we have been heartbroken so shut down our emotions to try and make the pain go away, but in doing so we also close our heart from being able to receive love and new opportunities.
We believe that we are protecting ourselves by molding ourselves to fit in and conform. As sensitive souls we likely felt very different on a deep level to those around us. Partly this preoccupation to try and BECOME the mask, who we mistakenly think we *ought* to be, is to try and finally quieten the negative mind chatter which has always said "You are not good enough until you are exactly like everyone else and I am going to punish you until you become just like everyone else." We are trying to ease our pain by trying to become the 3D illusions and expectations that are only holding us and this world back! We are MEANT to be different!
Is it really safe to constantly be in fear, anxiety, depression, self judgement, being bullied by yourself constantly? Does that seem like the safe sanctuary you want to live in? Or would you prefer to break free from that to see yourself as you truly are? To remember you are worthy and lovable - always have been and always will be, so the matrix's opinion is then null and void. It is much safer to reside in the strength of your own self love - it's far stronger than any mask we are quaking in fear behind.
We need to stop telling ourselves "I need to change to fit in in order to be good enough" and start aplausing ourselves for being different, so we can make a difference on this planet!!
When we finally embrace that we are different, and are MEANT to be different for very good reasons to inspire awakening in others and uplift the planet's frequencies, TO BE FREE OF THE PAIN, we finally embrace our self love, who we truly are. This self-love is far more protective than any false mask, because in love we know our worth and we know we are not defined by other people's biased (often towards their own conditioning) impressions of us. Besides, everyone caught up in the matrix is worrying about their own projected image and can't see beyond their own insecurities to take much notice of us, so we needn't fear so much being judged when everyone is too wrapped up in judging themselves!
When we recognize the masks and begin the process of removing them we will also feel TRULY protected and therefore unafraid of judgement because we will have risen above the illusions of such conditioning and judgement. We will be like giants looking down on the planet and everyone caught up in the matrix from our bird's eye view, not in an arrogant way but in a higher perspective kind of way. This reminds me of this music video by Rob Dougan, which was actually created for the Matrix film.
Many of us are now feeling this inner battled between the false self and our true self coming to a head. Our soul is calling us to break free from the shackles of the matrix. The limiting beliefs have played on a loop for too long and the universe wants us to change the record now because the matrix track has grown tiresome. We need to stop believing that others / society have the authority or understanding to define who we are. We can't keep allowing other's judgements to threaten our sense of self. We need to stop defining ourselves by societies f***** up b*******. The only way to create the change we came here to initiate is to know the real "me" and embody the real "me". When we consciously work on connecting with and remembering our true identity as soul we eventually reach a tipping point towards deeper and deeper awakening and liberation from the shackles. As we raise our vibration we see things more and more clearly - it is a domino effect but we must put in the effort to get the ball rolling and keep it rolling forward into higher states of consciousness.
This is why I created the I AM LOVED, I RECEIVE LOVE POWERFUL UNION ACTIVATION to help us all shift out of our false self and into self-union, the merging of our soul and humanness into deep unconditional self-love. This enables us to RECEIVE love, from our soul family, twin flame and most importantly from self. This reconnects us with the truth of unity-consciousness, of Oneness with Love and all that is. This IS union and it helps it manifest on the outside too with our twin flame. I guide you through healing past experiences where you felt hurt, rejected and abandoned and when you judged and rejected yourself so you can see yourself through the eyes of your soul family and twin flame's higher self in order to remember your true divinity, lovableness and worthiness. For such an affordable price of only $22.22 it is already creating waves of profound healing for twin flames whom have dedicated a little bit of their time to do the activation a few times a week. If you are interested in creating massive shifts within yourself also then I invite you to check it out here:
False Beliefs We Were Taught Were Real That Have Left a Devastating Impact
Many of these false beliefs are created in early childhood and then become the source of our negative mind chatter that can potentially haunt us and limit us for the rest of our lives. These are just a few examples of common false beliefs:
- I am only worthy if I keep my parents happy at all times
- It is my job to keep my parents happy at all times
- Who I am is who my parents told me I am. (What negative and judgemental statements, glances and attitudes did you receive from your parents? How have you defined yourself based on these? Also teachers, grandparents, older siblings, bullies, abusers, bosses etc What negative associations did they pin on you? People who seemed to have authority over you, did you believe what they said about you to be true? Even though they were judging you based on old paradigms and not on who you truly are.)
- I am only worthy if I fit in with "normal" people/ standards/ beliefs i e The Matrix, and I am weird/ wrong/ broken/ worthless/ unlovable/ stupid/ incompetent/ weak/ insignificant if I am / because I am different. (Hello! We are supposed to be different! How can we make a difference if we aren't different from the crowd, to help others begin to see things differently?)
These are just SOME of the limiting beliefs we need to break free from if we want to live our true potential as divine beings. An initial step would be to observe when a negative thought about self comes up and then counteract it with 3 reasons why that particular judgement is false. It may also be helpful for you to work out what your false and self-sabotaging beliefs are in order to clear them in the I AM LOVED, I RECEIVE LOVE activation.
Why There's No Need to Beat Ourselves Up or Feel Broken
We came here to experience the shadow and in returning to the light we can assist others to do the same also, thus inspiring the enlightenment of humanity. We are meant to be engulfed by shadow to begin with to experience it and understand it to the point of being able to assist others through personal experience.
We are meant to really feel the shadow in order to clear it within ourselves and automatically clear it for the collective too.
We purposely chose this planet and the ego in order to use it as a tool to learn to love ourselves even with imperfections. It's easy to love ourselves in soul form when we aren't clouded by 3D illusion, but it's much more of a challenge to increase our capacity to love unconditionally once incarnated on Earth.
The very nature of this planet is duality, so that means both light and dark exist and one cannot exist without the other. To beat ourselves up for having a shadow side is to beat ourselves up for being the very nature of the planet we are on. It's all a process, we chose this!
Inspiration from the Tarot
I felt drawn to look at the images on the Rider Waite tarot for further inspiration as to how the false self conditioning holds us back.
Ten of Wands
Carrying around the huge weight of our conditioning is just exhausting and slows us down. We cannot see clearly when we are forever caught up in the mask because we forget to be truly present - we are constantly in our thoughts and trying to see how we look on the outside through other people's eyes.
Eight of swords
When our mind is full of fear it believes the threats are very real. The subconscious mind doesn't know what is real and what isn't. But the only true threat is someone having an opinion which could trigger one of our own negative stories. We are really just afraid of our own stories coming up, which is the true source of our pain. That's why it's vital to consciously put in the effort to reconnect with our true selves regularly to reprogram the subconscious to see ourselves in our true state and know that is real.
When the ego constantly tries to resolve the inferiority complex it only serves to keep it going as it keeps us looking outside of self and making comparisons with others. This means our truth and peace are always out of reach because the ego is searching for it in the wrong direction. The key is to take a totally different approach - the only one that will truly work - to step out of mind and into heart. The false identity is just a developed pattern of thought and it's not something to beat yourself up about because everyone goes through it. The key is to become aware and be the observer to break free of this habit and create positive new patterns of thinking.
This rewiring of the subconscious mind takes a little persistence but I have made it easy through creating I AM LOVED, I RECEIVE LOVE: POWERFUL UNION ACTIVATION. I can help you go back to the source of some of these negative message you received from others and assist you to break down the negative self talk that you adopted as a result. I can help you shift into loving yourself like never before thus strengthening your connection to your soul, you twin flame and your soul family. This will help you to reach self-union and have that manifest in the physical with your twin flame too. But it definitely starts off with self-love. I can really help you achieve this on such a deep level.
Here is what a client recently had to say about the activation:
I have been doing this activation every day for almost 2 weeks. Everything Karen said about this healing audio is exactly what I found as well. I have been on the twin flame journey and began doing regular, daily energy clearings, meditations, healing activations, past life work, inner child work and karma clearings for seven months now. Very rarely do I miss a day and many days I work on more than one area. I have made huge advances in my life and have healed many areas but it has been long and slow. The time between breakthroughs is usually pretty long. The I AM LOVED, I RECEIVE LOVE activation by Karen has been miraculous! Almost immediately I noticed that I was able to shift my focus onto me and away from my twin even though as I progressed each day I noticed that the connection with my twin was getting much stronger. My etheric interactions have increased as well. The very best thing is the way you are guided to remember a time in which you felt judged. Going through this process has healed more deep blocks and wounding than ALL of the other things I have been doing. It is shifting everything for me. Thank you Karen! Your work is really valuable and I can’t thank you enough.
So if you would like rapid healing and alignment into self union and union with your twin flame I really feel my activation can help you.
Love and Light to you as always,
I AM LOVED, I RECEIVE LOVE: POWERFUL UNION ALIGNMENT ACTIVATION mp3
How do you reach union with your twin flame..? By reaching union with yourself. What does this mean? Union with self is when we can see beyond our conditioning, illusions and ego false self to align with the truth of our divine soul consciousness - to know we are pure, innocent, lovable and perfectly divine even with our human imperfections. Union with self is the state of embracing both our divinity and our humanness and merging those into One, embracing all aspects of ourselves in Love. It's the state we reach when we are no longer controlled by our conditioning which takes us away from self love and oneness, and so we can reconnect with our divine soul truth and live our lives embodying our authenticity. This activates our union with our twin flame because so within, so without, as above, so below.
In this powerful union alignment activation I take you through the steps to clear out the areas in which you have been judging yourself, feeling unworthy, cutting yourself off from love and subconsciously blocking your union. I take you on a gentle journey to connect with your soul family and twin flame's unconditional love that they always have for you. I show you how loved you are so you can really see it, feel it and believe it, opening your heart to receive this love and your own self-love, trusting your twin flame loves you so deeply. This activates your heart to open further to receiving more and more love.
You will align with your true nature, which is Love, and therefore you will begin manifesting the reflection of this unconditional love that you will cultivate for yourself in the form of union with your twin flame.
This is such a powerful activation. You will begin stripping down the layers of unconditional blocks and really begin seeing yourself in this new loving light, releasing fear of being unworthy that can get trapped in our subconscious. This clears it all out making room to allow the love and union in. This is union with self to make way for union with your twin flame.
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