Twin flame union is all about your readiness to receive the TRUTH of love by breaking free of all the illusions and paradigms we are taught that love is and should look like. We need to align with the REALITY of true unconditional love because it's impossible to reach union if we are aligned with the illusions. Reality cannot manifest out of illusion. The illusions surrounding love focus upon separation-consciousness i.e. the idea that love is outside of us and we are separate from love. This creates a ton of fear and codependency that actually locks us out of receiving true love and peace.
The truth is Love comes from within and THEN mirrors back to us once we've reconnected with it within (self - union). The exception to this rule is when we experienced the unconditional love from our mother - it didn't matter if we loved ourselves or not, she would love us no matter what. If you struggle to feel that your mother loved you unconditionally then think about the love you have for your children (if you have them). No matter what they do you still love them. This is true love, the unconditional kind and this is the love we must have for ourselves and for our twin for union to manifest. Obviously it is NOT an excuse to put up with abuse of any kind. Abuse is not part of a true twin flame connection anyway and is a clear sign that it's a karmic. We can love another unconditionally and still have healthy boundaries for ourselves. Love does not mean putting up with anything, but it means sometimes the need to love someone from a distance in order to respect ourselves.
We cannot receive true unconditional love if we don't even know what true unconditional love is. When we wait around for twin flame union to match up to the outdated expectations surrounding love and relationships, we get stuck waiting forever, still believing that our happiness, wholeness and our experience of love is outside of ourselves and is being withheld from us until the other person changes. We are stuck on the idea of "love" which is not love at all and then wonder why true union does not happen. It won't even happen in the old paradigm kinda way with all it's limitations and illusions because IT'S NOT MEANT TO. You are hear to awaken each other so you can come back to true love.
Our souls seek the true love that resides within, our ego's seek validation from outside of ourselves and instant gratification. But the twin flame path is all about getting us back into self-union by making us realize that the old paradigms aren't what we truly want (separation-consciousness) and that if we actually do want unconditional love and peace then we need to heal ourselves in order to align with it and receive it, firstly from within and then without. Twin flame union is the great motivator for doing the healing work in order to achieve the self-union required to enable us to receive union with our twin too. To read more about self-union read my previous article here.
Now before I get into the powerful signs that a person either is or isn't ready to receive union I am going to talk about something that some feminine's may be triggered by. The truth I have to reveal is that it's the feminine's role to become the receiver in order to manifest union. The feminine goes first. And please remember we all have the feminine aspect so take whatever resonates. You may be a masculine reading this but the messages will still apply for your inner feminine aspect. But the one who is predominantly feminine is the one to get the union ball rolling by taking the initial steps to become the RECEIVER or container of TRUE love (firstly for self from within and then for twin) for the union to grow within. Just like the feminine has the ability to be the receiver of the sperm and the container to grow and protect the infant, she is also the one to become the solid container of love in order to receive the masculine's love and allow him, herself and union to grow. The feminine goes first or else there's a spanner in the works that can remain there for however long we are stuck on the idea that the masculine should go first to give us love and "prove" to us that we are lovable enough to receive love.
The feminine aspect is all about receptivity and receiving - it is her nature. So many are waiting for the masculine's wine of love to be poured into their feminine heart cup but if we have not yet become the receiver of true unconditional love it's like the masculine's love would pour right through us just like wine pouring through a sieve. For some feminine's their wounds have caused a lid to form on their heart cup and so the masculine's love cannot enter, cannot be received at all.
As you become able to truly receive, able to contain and align with true unconditional love, the masculine becomes the giver of that unconditional love (but please note that we must give ourselves that love too from our own inner masculine). Becoming the receiver magnetizes the masculine to become their true nature of the giver. Again, we both contain masculine and feminine and so it's not all about one giving and the other receiving but in order for the union to thrive between the twins there will be a natural tendency to one aspect or the other.
Another way to explain this is to talk about the law of attraction. When we want to manifest something we have to first believe that we will receive what we are asking for. We have to become that vibration to receive and ground our manifestation BEFORE it can be given to us. The feminine naturally being the receiver means we must be the ones to go first in learning to receive union and then just like the universe being the giver, the masculine then has a stable place to give and contain his love within you. If you would like to clear the blocks and truly align in self-union with receiving love firstly from yourself and then your twin then my powerful activation meditation I AM LOVED, I RECEIVE LOVE can really help you. It's already helped hundreds of twin flames to create profound shifts and I am so pleased to have received such positive feedback for it.
So now lets move onto the signs that indicate that a person may be stuck on the old idea of love which is preventing them from receiving the real deal. We wilL then look into the signs that a person truly is ready to receive the real deal.
7 Powerful Signs You Are NOT Ready to Receive Reunion:
1) You are feeling resentment towards your twin and men / women in general. You think "they are all the same" and are judging your twin based upon outdated stereotypes of their gender that you still believe are real. You tarnish them with the same brush relating to past hurts you experienced with other men / women. Whatever we believe to be real manifests as our external "reality". Whatever we choose to see, we see! So if you believe them to be hurtful, unavailable, cruel or whatever, you will get that right back from them. But the truth is your twin flame's higher self is causing him / her to behave in the very ways that trigger you in order to show you all of your outdated and limiting attitudes and beliefs that you need to drop if you want to stop attracting those kinds of experiences and break through to align with true love and union.
2) You are blaming the lack of reunion on your twin flame and his / her attitude and behaviour. But when we have blame and resentment it is a sign that we are still basing our happiness / experience of love / self worth on the actions of another, i.e. our twin, looking outside of ourselves for love. This is giving away your power by allowing your twin to affect you to the point where you believe you are not whole or cannot achieve wholeness until they change and give you what you want. They are mirroring back to you everything you need to heal within yourself. Your ego wants specific things from them but all those things are what your soul wants you to give yourself first. Your twin's higher self wants you to find inner wholeness and self-love (self-union) so you can RECEIVE true love, receive your true self and receive THEM!
3) You still believe the illusion that the masculine is the "sleeper twin". You believe you just have to wait for them to wake up and catch up. You are waiting on them whilst all the while their higher self is waiting on you to wake up and realize it's all about breaking through these illusions. You are twin flames and you are equal - period. It is only the ego that makes many feminine's believe they are more awake and therefore "superior" in some way. Whatever we believe about our masculine our masculine will also feel about himself too. If you think he is unworthy on some level then he will feel that way and know you think that. He will assume you would only reject him if he came closer.
You are both a divine team, working together at all times. Until you can read between the lines and see beyond the illusions you will be stuck in the separation consciousness continuing to manifest.
4) You still believe the illusion that you love him more than he loves you. This could only be the case if it wasn't your twin flame. But this illusion keeps you stuck in fear and constantly looking for validation from him, which distracts you from going inwards and healing yourself. The masculine literally cannot give you love if you cannot receive it because the energies are out of alignment.
5) You still believe you are the only one who feels rejected in your connection. Believe me the masculine feels rejected in many ways when we are still holding onto the stereotypes surrounding men or when we are full of bitterness towards them. For example, when the feminine tries to control everything because of a fear of not receiving love from him she is unconsciously telling him that she doesn't trust him to be there for her, to be a competent partner, to be able to heal himself or play his role in the relationship. But he is playing his divine role! And that divine role is to have you initially believe he doesn't love you! Again, be cautious with this! Don't use this as an excuse to hold onto an abusive partner! Use your discernment PLEASE. If he is in fact your true twin then in time you need to wake up and smell the coffee that he does love you very much and is trying to help you awaken and love yourself like never before! You have to go through the illusion of not being loved on the outside so that eventually you are motivated to find it within instead and then you reach the epiphany that your masculine has always loved you and you just couldn't see it.
Most men have experienced the bitterness from past women whom expected him to be a fairy tale and solve all her problems and when he could not perform that impossible task and role he was heavily criticized, blamed and judged. When we don't trust a man to be there for us and we have unrealistic expectations of him then he fears being attacked in the same way that he experienced countless times before with other wounded feminines. If you tell him he's unworthy either verbally or energetically, he will believe it and think he's doing you a favour by staying away.
Also, when the feminine resents the masculine then energetically she is pushing him away. Love is blocked by such illusory stories we tell ourselves that the masculine has "rejected" us. When we base our worth on our masculines actions and reactions towards us, then we are still stuck in the separation-consciousness. Until we break through and see the truth we remain stuck going in circles.
6) Another sign that shows you are not ready to receive reunion just yet is if you believe that wholeness, love, joy, peace etc is somewhere "out there" in the future and you don't realize your twin is "holding back" so you find it within yourself RIGHT NOW. Waiting around for your twin implies you believe happiness and love will come in the future but cannot be attained right now. Your soul wants you to work on your self-love in the present moment because without it you will always remain insecure even if you did get together with your twin. You'd still be worried that your happiness could be "taken away" at any moment and these illusions will continue to be mirrored between you and your twin until you discover and embody the truth of your own wholeness - your self-union.
7) You are subconsciously looking to your twin to heal your childhood wounds and love you in all the ways that you were not loved in your childhood and all the ways you do not love yourself. But your twin is you! So if you cannot receive you own self-love then your twin cannot give you that love just yet either or receive their own self-love. If you believe he should represent the perfect lover whom will heal you completely, fill in your voids and make your whole then you will be sorely disappointed. When he does not play that role because he CANNOT you take it personally and feel all the abandonment and rejection wounds all over again. Our twins are designed to trigger us, not be a band aid. They highlight where we need to work on our own wholeness. This is them loving us! Because inner love is the only true place where we can find peace and wholeness.
7 Powerful Signs You ARE Ready to Recieve Reunion
1) You understand you are working as a team and are grateful for the triggers that are helping you to heal yourself. You see it as a challenge and have a positive perception of the whole dynamic. You look forward to being "given the clues" by your twin as to what you need to work on that's going to bring you more happiness and peace within yourself. You are grateful that they are helping you in this way, teaching you about yourself and how to reclaim your own personal power and self-love.
2) You no longer need union to manifest in the physical to feel completely happy and at peace in the present moment. You don't bend over backwards just to try and force it to work or overly accommodate poor behaviour whilst sacrificing yourself because you are so afraid of losing him. You are now confident to be yourself and let your own needs be understood. You draw healthy boundaries. You want it but you don't need it because you're at peace within. You are no longer worried or feel devastated at the thought that union might not happen. Your world doesn't fall apart at the thought because you are happy with yourself and your life right now. You feel passionate about life and know you are going somewhere in terms of your purpose. You passionately work towards your purpose and know that union with your twin is not the only thing that brings meaning to your life.
3) You understand that your life and relationship doesn't have to look like the expectations society or family has for you. In fact you don't want you life or your relationship with your twin to look like the old and outdated paradigms because you fully understand how limiting and suffocating those codependent relationships are. You want the freedom that comes with true unconditional love that you share with your twin. You know that your connection is all about helping each other to become liberated from the shackles of society and bloodline wounding so you have no desire to try and box this connection into those traditional relationship templates.
4) You know this connection is primarily about healing yourself and is a divine mission to help uplift the planet into a higher vibration. You realize that this isn't just about getting to be with someone in a committed relationship. You understand that your souls agreed for this to all unfold exactly as it is in order for you to reconnect with your true self, your soul, beyond the illusions. It's all about remembering our true nature and then embodying it here on Earth.
5) You surrender and go with the flow, knowing that the universe always has your back and is always delivering you your highest good. You understand that it's much more blissful to surrender any expectations and just allow union to unfold in whatever way it is meant to for your highest good. It means you get to release all the fear, pain, tension etc that keeps you stuck feeling horrible all the time and you make this choice for yourself as a self-loving act. You trust the universe. It brings you peace to just go with the flow instead of trying to control or steer everything out of that place of fear. You are tired of such fears and willingly hand them over and let the universe take the steering wheel, knowing it gives to you that which you are in vibration so you work hard to become a high vibration because you want the best for yourself.
6) You know you are already in union with your twin. You totally understand that there is no separation and never was. You can see that it's just the illusions we are brought up on in this world that had us believing we are separate from love, separate from our twin. You understand that it's ALL about dissolving the illusions of separation, NOT about how to heal the "split" and come back into oneness. You see now there never was a "split" and all those old fashioned theories were still rooted in separation-consciousness. You've evolved beyond those now.
7) You have achieved self-union. You can see yourself for who you really are and are no longer blinded by conditioning which causes you to think (consciously or subconsciously) that you are unworthy simply for being human. You are no longer so affected by other opinions of you because you know who you are and that you are lovable and loved unconditionally by your twin, your soul family and yourself without exception. In self-union, you know you are lovable even with your divine imperfections. You realize it's not about changing yourself to become worthy of love, but rather it's about changing your attitude towards self into true and deep unconditional self-love. You see yourself in your divine light. You see past the illusion that there is a "worthy" you (soul) and an "unworthy" you (human) and instead you love ALL aspects of who you are, knowing that all parts of you are real and divine. You no longer seek perfection (illusion) in order to try and earn love because you know you always deserve love and that you are lovable just the way you are.
This is the most powerful aspect our soul came here to realize. It shifts us into union with Love. This shift will also inspire others back into self-love and self-union in order to assist in uplifting the planet's vibration. We raise the vibration of the planet into the truth of unity-consciousness and thus begin creating more peace on Earth. Not only this, but an awesome added bonus is that in achieving self-union we are aligned to receive union with our twin!
I have created a powerful union activation called I AM LOVED, I RECEIVE LOVE designed to help you back into self-union, to be able to see yourself in your true light and love yourself like never before. This self-union dissolves all the other blocks because finally the search for Love outside of self is over because you've reunited with it within. Obviously it doesn't mean that you no longer want to be with your twin flame - not at all. It actually opens you up to receive their love, finally allowing union to flow in. By breaking through the thick crust of illusion you create room to allow union with your twin to flow in.
Your twin flame and Soul Family are the powerful mirrors to help you see how loved you are! I guide you through some past experiences when you felt rejected and abandoned or when you judged or rejected yourself. I help you heal and purge these damaging experiences when you felt unworthy and unlovable. This clears the blockages, allowing you to reconnect with your self-Love on a whole new level, thus opening your heart to be able to finally TRUST your twin flame's Love for you and energetically allow him/her to align and unite with you. The activation helps you to become the powerful RECEIVER you need to be in order to allow in union. This powerful tool for achieving self-Love naturally aligns your twin flame with their own self-Love too! It makes a remarkable difference! I also help you rapidly shift old blocks and patterns that have been holding you back or keeping you going in circles by assisting you to recalibrate your energies to align with your highest timeline and soul blueprint.
Here is what a client recently had to say about the activation:
I have been doing this activation every day for almost 2 weeks. Everything Karen said about this healing audio is exactly what I found as well. I have been on the twin flame journey and began doing regular, daily energy clearings, meditations, healing activations, past life work, inner child work and karma clearings for seven months now. Very rarely do I miss a day and many days I work on more than one area. I have made huge advances in my life and have healed many areas but it has been long and slow. The time between breakthroughs is usually pretty long. The I AM LOVED, I RECEIVE LOVE activation by Karen has been miraculous! Almost immediately I noticed that I was able to shift my focus onto me and away from my twin even though as I progressed each day I noticed that the connection with my twin was getting much stronger. My etheric interactions have increased as well. The very best thing is the way you are guided to remember a time in which you felt judged. Going through this process has healed more deep blocks and wounding than ALL of the other things I have been doing. It is shifting everything for me. Thank you Karen! Your work is really valuable and I can’t thank you enough.
If you would like to create HUGE healing shifts, finally release yourself from the imprisoning conditionings, illusions and self-judgement and reach union with Love and your twin flame then I invite you to experience this journey with me in I AM LOVE, I RECEIVE LOVE: Powerful Union Alignment Activation.
All it requires is a small effort from you to listen to this meditation on a regular basis. If you listen to it often then you will experience PROFOUND shifts.
I really hope you enjoy the meditation and all the benefits that come with it! I look forward to guiding you on this journey on the other side!
As always, Love and Light to you,
I AM LOVED, I RECEIVE LOVE: POWERFUL UNION ALIGNMENT ACTIVATION mp3
How do you reach union with your twin flame..? By reaching union with yourself. What does this mean? Union with self is when we can see beyond our conditioning, illusions and ego false self to align with the truth of our divine soul consciousness - to know we are pure, innocent, lovable and perfectly divine even with our human imperfections. Union with self is the state of embracing both our divinity and our humanness and merging those into One, embracing all aspects of ourselves in Love. It's the state we reach when we are no longer controlled by our conditioning which takes us away from self love and oneness, and so we can reconnect with our divine soul truth and live our lives embodying our authenticity. This activates our union with our twin flame because so within, so without, as above, so below.
In this powerful union alignment activation I take you through the steps to clear out the areas in which you have been judging yourself, feeling unworthy, cutting yourself off from love and subconsciously blocking your union. I take you on a gentle journey to connect with your soul family and twin flame's unconditional love that they always have for you. I show you how loved you are so you can really see it, feel it and believe it, opening your heart to receive this love and your own self-love, trusting your twin flame loves you so deeply. This activates your heart to open further to receiving more and more love.
You will align with your true nature, which is Love, and therefore you will begin manifesting the reflection of this unconditional love that you will cultivate for yourself in the form of union with your twin flame.
This is such a powerful activation. You will begin stripping down the layers of unconditional blocks and really begin seeing yourself in this new loving light, releasing fear of being unworthy that can get trapped in our subconscious. This clears it all out making room to allow the love and union in. This is union with self to make way for union with your twin flame.
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